__________a n g e l in need of a direction

Friday, May 16, 2003

what guys like
guys like girls who take good care of themselves. this isn't about model beauty. this is about clean hair, smelling good, exercising. by taking care of yourself, you send out the message that you are about yourself. guys like this!

guys like girls who have a life. they like it when you aren't always available. they like to know that if they like you, you aren't going to be needing them all the time.

guys like girls who have a sense of humour. this is one of the most underestimated attributes. let's face it, we all love someone who laughs [especially at our jokes] and knows how to have fun.

guys like girls who don't try too hard. once again, the message you send when you try too hard is that you are desperate. they want to think that they lucked out by getting you.

guys like girls who listen to them and find them interesting. don't fake it, but don't try to "get" a guy if you don't think he is interesting.

guys like girls who have fun with their girlfriends. they want to know that if they are going to watch the game on saturday night, you aren't going to fall apart. they like girls who can have a good time without them.

guys like girls who sincerely like them. so... instead of thinking, "i want a boyfriend," think, "i am looking forward to meeting a guy i like who likes me back."

what girls like
girls like guys who adore them. this is the number-one thing for girls. many a girl has fallen in love with a guy after he announces that he likes her. the more you like her, the better [unless it is overbearing].

girls like guys who are strong. they like guys who are confident and give them the feeling that they are safe when they are around them.

girls like guys who aren't afraid to say sweet things to them. "you look so pretty tonight." stuff like that.

girls like guys who don't shy away from them when their buddies are around.

girls like guys who know how to have fun when they are with a girl [besides being physical].

girls like guys who make them feel special.

girls like guys who care about their feelings and who aren't afraid to talk about "emotional" stuff.

girls like guys who are thoughtful, who call just to say "hi," "goodnight," or to see how they are doing.

girls like guys who are generous. not just with money but in other ways, too. they like guys who will go out of their way to make them feel comfortable.

girls like guys who take care of themselves. they like clean hair, nice clothes and they love a guy who smells good.

girls like guys who do little things like hold their hand softly, move their hair away from their face for them or remember the day they first kissed.

heaven by your side;
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